Did you know that a recent study said 7 out of every 10 girls feel they do not measure up in some way including their looks, performance in school and relationships? That's disturbing to me as a mother. What are we doing wrong that our daughters feel they are unworthy so much? :( Take a moment out of your day to encourage your daughter, no matter her age, and make her feel that YES, she can do something! Yes, she is beautiful! When was the last time you had a mother-daughter outing, with no pressure, or not being in a hurry? Maybe you can make a special recipe together in the kitchen if you can't get out, or have an afternoon of pampering at home with doing your nails together and a foot soak.
You can also help out the Dove Self-Esteem Fund simply by entering any Dove product UPC here, and select a charity of your choice. For every UPC code entered, Dove will donate $1 (up to $500,000, limit 1 donation per household) to inspiring self-esteem programs at your chosen charity. It just takes a moment of your time to help out with this donation!
Win it! One lucky reader will win two copies of "True You" workbooks which are mother-daughter guides, a plush terrycloth spa robe, and two Dove products! To enter, please tell us how you encourage the girls in your life. If there are no girls in your life, will you pledge to enter a UPC in the next few days so a donation can be made?
As always, if you have completed the first entry above, you can receive extra entries for:
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That's four (4) possible entries! Giveaway ends December 15th at 11:59 PM PST (note the short run!), and please leave your email address in your entry or have it available in your profile. US only, sorry :( Good luck everyone!!
I did not receive anything for this post, but one of my readers will win a gift pack as described above and sent by a PR firm on behalf of Dove.
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I encourage my daughter to be the best that she can be.
I have always taught my daughter to be herself and not to bother with people that try to change her. I have taught her to have an open mind and to accept everyone for who they are.
I'm not sure if this is what you have in mind or not, but I try to talk to pre-teen and teenage girls as if they are equals and not children. The tendency is to treat them as children and try to impart "adult wisdom" to them by lecturing when they do silly things, but by showing them the same respect I expect from them, they learn self-confidence and trust.
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My sisters and I do not talk negatively about body immage in front of our nieces. We want them to feel that they are fine and not give them a complex.
i love my grandaughters unconditionally and am always positive with them.
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I practice positive talk with my daughters every day. We as parents have to make sure of what we say, it really does affect our children. It may seem like commen sense, but I want them to grow up with love and respect and a strong sense of self.
I encourage my daughter to fulfill her dreams. Thanks for the chance.
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I tell my daughter not to sweat the small stuff
I encourage the girls to be honest and kind. We do volunteer work as a family and this has helped them appreciate the things they have and it has helped them build their self-esteem.
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I will pledge to enter a UPC in the next few days so a donation can be made.
I encourage my daughter to be fearless and independent. She not only cheers, but she rocks on her hockey team (she is the only girl on the team!)
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I SHOW THEM A LOSER AND THEN A WINNER AND ASK THEM WHICH ONE THEY WANT TO BE
I just talk to my kids and talk some more
I help out the girls in my life by setting examples myself. I do things like volunteering at the local humane socety, I tell them that they should never allow themselves to be abused in any manner and to tell an adult if something scares them. I have told them that they deserve respect and that real love never hurts. I want nothing but the best for the girls in my life, and I walk the talk, not just talk the walk.
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I entered a UPC code from Dove Nourishing Hand Wash for a 1$ donation to the Girl Scouts.
I tell my daughter she can be anything she want to - the sky is the limit!
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I encourage the girls in my life (my nieces) by being a good listener and letting them know that they can always count on me for moral support.
My girlfriends and I go out at least once a week to spend time together. We encourage each other in what we are currently doing at the time. It's really helpful.
I try to be a good role model and for my girls to find out what their dreams and talents are - and then pursue them
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I have a granddaughter in college and another in high school. I have tried to always make them feel good about themselves and tell them I love them (a lot).
I encourage my daughters to stand up for themselves,to be tru to themselves and their morals.
And let them know that they can be and accomplish anything that they set their minds to.
Thank you so much for the chance to win.
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I encourage my daughter to try her best at what ever she does. I also encourage her to try new things and to have fun.
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I encourage the little girl I babysit to be herself. I encourage her to be creative by painting with her. I encourage her to be well mannered by being a positive influence and rewarded good deeds. I encourage her to think by asking her questions. I encourage her a lot, actually! :)
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I spend time with them and tell to be their self.
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I have always taught my daughter that honesty is the best policy and to be herself - always !!
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My mother was/is amazing, but she puts a certain emphasis on looks, she doesn't realize it, but growing up, it hurt a little bit. I want my daughter to look her best. But I want it to be HER best, the way she wants to look, not someone else's best.
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I encourage my daughter by helping her out when needed and giving her my opinion and being positive.
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I always remind the girls in my life how beautiful they are and I try to point out all of the great things about each one of them.
I always tell my daughter that loving yourself is the first step to loving others.
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I encourage my nieces by always talking about how great they are (because they are) and how important their achievements are (because they are). I also try to have one day a year with each of them when we do something new that that niece wants to do. asthenight at gmail dot com
i encourage my son to be creative, self-confident and to tell me everything.
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I encourage my wife and daughter every single day with positive reinforcement, a big hug, engaging conversation which includes "listening" and by supporting them in whatever they want to do & try.
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I have been a girl scout leader and tried to be a role model to girls whose own mothers perhaps aren't good models. With my own daughter I have always encouraged her to try everything and that she can succeed at anything. Thanks so much! pamelashockley(AT)netscape(DOT)net
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I encourage my daughter to be herself, believe in herself, and to be positive.
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I don't have any girls of my own. But I pledge to enter a UPC symbol.
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I encourage my daughters to keep trying if they don't get something right the first time and praise them when they do. Hard work is very important in life.
I encourage them to be stong, smart, clever & careful.
I am letting them know that women are equal to or better than men & can doing anything they dream of ..if they work hard & set goals & try the best.
Teaching them self worth is the most important thing to me along with faith in God!
Also, to never judge anyone by their creed or color but by their actions & deeds!
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A wonderful post and most inspiring (judging from the comments!).
In retrospective, I will admit my daughter and I are very different individuals but I have also learned much with her.
In fact I credit her for being a well balanced individual, with strong morale standards, quick wit and a shoulder to lean on during hard times.
I might very well describe her as my best friend!
Proud to be her Mum always,
God speed!
Are the Corgis celebrating the Diamond Jubilee in your household as well?
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